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 Always getting friendzoned? Read this |
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Sep 28, 2008 - 9:39 AM - by PocoDiablo
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Okay, so now that all is said and done, and you got friendzoned again, now is the time to reflect. Let me suggest some reading materials you should go over so you will be better prepared next time.
1. www.askmen.com/dating/doclove - Doc Love is in my opinion one of the best advice writers for guys who are looking for quality long term relationships. His material really helps you qualify the WOMAN. Too often us guys will go out with any woman, or attempt to, and not have any qualifications for her. I would strongly recommend you start reading his articles. If you have the $100, but his book at www.DocLove.com. If you don't have the $100, save up $100 and buy the book. This book is a must-have for any guy.
2. www.DoubleYourDating.com - You can sign up for his free email newsletter and will receive tons of great articles. I would also recommend you purchase his ebook. It's loaded with great information on flirting and teasing and generally being a guy who is attractive to women. Note that I list this second - that is because the first site teaches you that women are not all perfect. This is important - if you make yourself attractive to women, but attract crappy women, you will suffer greatly.
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Quick "How to" for asking women out, and when to call |
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Sep 28, 2008 - 9:34 AM - by PocoDiablo
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If you get her number, and call her the next day, you're not likely to have good results.
Read this field study my friend did:
http://www.friendzoned.com/forums/showthread.php?t=533
Now, with that in mind, WHEN you get her number, you're going to tell her "I'll call you and we'll go on a date." DON'T BE LIKE EVERY OTHER LAME FUCKING GUY AND CALL HER THE NEXT FUCKING DAY!  Christ. Have some self-control. She's not going anywhere! Give her a little suspense. Make her think you have a life and she's not the only thing on your mind. Wait 4-6 days, then call her and ask her out on a date.
Now, with that said, where are you going to go? Someone asked me about going to the zoo, and here is what Isaid:
1. How much does the zoo cost? Is it less than $20? First dates should always be CHEAP to weed out gold diggers or chicks who are just bored and looking to use some sucker and his wallet.
2. Is it within about 10 minutes drive time? If the date goes bad, how long do you have to be with her to drive her home (assuming you pick her up).
3. Is it upscale enough that she can dress up and look good for you (an indicator of how much she likes you)? You have to give her an opportunity to look her best.
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On Being a Mack in the Land of Puritans (First FZ.com column!) |
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Sep 29, 2008 - 11:00 PM - by al.shone
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On Being a Mack in the Land of Puritans (First FZ.com column!)
September 29, 2008: On Being a Mack in the Land of Puritans
I grew up in a liberal college town. You've probably heard of it. Hippies, baby boomers yapping on endlessly about the 1960s, Bob Dylan, free love, all of that stuff. The townies (most of whom never left the city limits, by the way) prided themselves on being oh so tolerant and progressive. More tolerant and progressive than you in any case. More "cosmopolitan" than their countrymen from the sticks. Perhaps a touch more "sophisticated." The more snooty among them would occasionally claim to be more "European" in their worldview.
Sounds like a bunch of obnoxious bullshit, doesn't it?
I don't need to tell you it was.
I often wondered why in elementary school, since we were so sophisticated and progressive, the boys were so baffled by the girls all the time. I remember on a sixth grade camping trip, the girls rushed en masse over to our side of the campground and sat in our laps around the fire. Obviously, it was a devious trap the girls hatched in their cabins. We didn't know how to react, other than sheer terror and confused looks exchanged between us boys in the flickering firelight. Personally, I tried to be brave despite my trembling, skinny knees and enjoy it. I took Anna's hand (although I really wanted Ariel to sit in my lap, but she... [Read More]
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